Update manager stuck in update
It is safe to kill update-manager, but after that please run the following:
sudo dpkg --configure -a
sudo apt-get install -f
sudo apt-get update && sudo apt-get upgrade
I ran into the same issue, and found a solution that worked for me based on: linuxquestions.org
Execute the following commands:
ps -e | grep apt
And then:
sudo kill -9 <pid>
For each apt/aptd pid reported.