Is there an adjective for someone who can withstand ridicule?
Solution 1:
good sport
someone who can accept a loss in a competition or can accept being the butt of a joke.
It is used as a noun. The definition is related to being able to take a joke but it also covers accepting criticism with grace.
As an adjective, I would say easygoing. This would describe the type of person.
relaxed in manner or attitude; inclined to be excessively tolerant
As a phrase, there is have a broad back:
not be easily hurt by criticism
It helps to have a broad back in showbusiness.
But this goes back to thick-skinned:
not easily hurt by criticism, insult, etc.
As you said, thick-skinned has two meanings. One of the meaning is what you ask but the other one is what you want to avoid. It would depend on the context then.
Solution 2:
Unflappable can be used to describe this kind of attitude:
not easily perturbed or excited or upset; marked by extreme calm and composure; "hitherto imperturbable, he now showed signs of alarm"; "an imperturbable self-possession"; "unflappable in a crisis"