How to display favicon on my Safari Tab?
This is not possible with current version of Safari 9 or 9.1.
If, like me, you do really want this feature, please use Apple Safari feedack form to send feedback to Apple.
They do listen to customer feedback, I can assure you, and when it comes to features like this, the number of requests is essential.
There now is a solution to this: I have created Faviconographer, an app that will overlay Favicons for Safari tabs. It's still a workaround compared to a native Safari feature, but it works surprisingly well.
Safari 10.0.2: favicons are shown when pinning the tab.
This answers your original question, even though is not what you wanted to ask :)
As of Safari 12.0 it's now possible. In Preferences, you can now show favicon in the new Tabs settings:
Show website icons in tabs