OS X: using the keyboard to select an option in a message window / box?

Solution 1:

This is really annoying I can tell, but you can tab through dialog boxes.

Go to "System Preferences" > "Keyboard & Shrotcuts".

At the very bottom there will be an option saying about "full keyboard access". Check the radio button that says “All Controls” and here you go

Solution 2:

Most applications will also accept some keyboard commands for those dialog boxes:

  • Esc for Cancel
  • Return for the default (blue) button (usually Save)
  • Command-D for Don't Save.