I keep losing my wife in Skyrim
I married Jenassa and I keep losing her. I went back to our house to look for her & The Drunken Huntsman's place too but I can't find her anywhere.
Solution 1:
If you don't own a house spouses tend to have a location they fallback to so if you lose them (again) check their default hangouts and they are likely there.
List of spouse locations (and more) here
Solution 2:
If you want your wife to stay put, you have to own a house and tell her to live there.
You can move your wife from house to house, but once you own property you'll have a dialogue option that will tell her where to go and where to stay.