Why is it so bad to mock classes?
Solution 1:
Mocking is used for protocol testing - it tests how you'll use an API, and how you'll react when the API reacts accordingly.
Ideally (in many cases at least), that API should be specified as an interface rather than a class - an interface defines a protocol, a class defines at least part of an implementation.
On a practical note, mocking frameworks tend to have limitations around mocking classes.
In my experience, mocking is somewhat overused - often you're not really interested in the exact interaction, you really want a stub... but mocking framework can be used to create stubs, and you fall into the trap of creating brittle tests by mocking instead of stubbing. It's a hard balance to get right though.
Solution 2:
IMHO, what your colleague means is that you should program to an interface, not an implementation. If you find yourself mocking classes too often, it's a sign you broke the previous principle when designing your architecture.
Solution 3:
Mocking classes (in contrast to mocking interfaces) is bad because the mock still has a real class in the background, it is inherited from, and it is possible that real implementation is executed during the test.
When you mock (or stub or whatever) an interface, there is no risk of having code executed you actually wanted to mock.
Mocking classes also forces you to make everything, that could possibly be mocked, to be virtual, which is very intrusive and could lead to bad class design.
If you want to decouple classes, they should not know each other, this is the reason why it makes sense to mock (or stub or whatever) one of them. So implementing against interfaces is recommended anyway, but this is mentioned here by others enough.
Solution 4:
I would suggest to stay away from mocking frameworks as far as possible. At the same time, I would recommend to use mock/fake objects for testing, as much as possible. The trick here is that you should create built-in fake objects together with real objects. I explain it more in detail in a blog post I wrote about it: http://www.yegor256.com/2014/09/23/built-in-fake-objects.html