SQL - IF EXISTS UPDATE ELSE INSERT INTO

1. Create a UNIQUE constraint on your subs_email column, if one does not already exist:

   ALTER TABLE subs ADD UNIQUE (subs_email)
   

2. Use INSERT ... ON DUPLICATE KEY UPDATE:

   INSERT INTO subs
     (subs_name, subs_email, subs_birthday)
   VALUES
     (?, ?, ?)
   ON DUPLICATE KEY UPDATE
     subs_name     = VALUES(subs_name),
     subs_birthday = VALUES(subs_birthday)
   

You can use the VALUES(col_name) function in the UPDATE clause to refer to column values from the INSERT portion of the INSERT ... ON DUPLICATE KEY UPDATE - dev.mysql.com

3. Note that I have used parameter placeholders in the place of string literals, as one really should be using parameterised statements to defend against SQL injection attacks.

Try this:

INSERT INTO `center_course_fee` (`fk_course_id`,`fk_center_code`,`course_fee`) VALUES ('69', '4920153', '6000') ON DUPLICATE KEY UPDATE `course_fee` = '6000';