Is there a word or phrase for giving something to a highly respected person?
The word bestow comes to mind.
to convey as a gift —usually used with on or upon
The university bestowed on her an honorary degree.
Google:
Confer or present (an honor, right, or gift).
"the office was bestowed on him by the chief of state"
synonyms: confer on, grant, accord, afford, endow
Present comes to mind. It's also part of the definition of bestow in mplungjan's answer.
Particularly the definition:
Give or award formally or ceremonially.
"They presented him with extravagant gifts"
You will present something to them.
I have tried to think of how it could be applied to non physical gifts such as respect, but in those cases I don't think it works well, though I think it could fit if the sentence was structured right.
Something like:
He was presented with a display of respect and loyalty.