Why do people use "..." in emails after people's names? For example, "Mike... "

Because they do not know proper punctuation? At first I thought you were asking about the use of quotation marks but now I understand that you mean the ellipses, correct?

I don't know that there is a real reason for this. In my opinion it is a less formal punctuation than using a comma after "Mike" but it is in no sense standard.

The alternatives may seem too formal, (comma) or too imperative (no punctuation after Mike) so the ellipses "..." is a way to "soften" the tone in a friendly way.