Is there a generally accepted group of grammatical terms for English?
Unhappily, there is no one "accepted nomenclature" right now. The language for talking about English grammar has been evolving very rapidly for two generations as scholars find it necessary to invent new terms to denote new perceptions which cannot be adequately expressed in the old manner, by twisting Greek and Latin categories to fit an alien tongue. Half the terms I was taught in the 1950s have been abandoned, and the other half mean something different. Not always the same different, neither: different grammarians will use the same term in different ways. The great advance we have made is that today's grammarians will tell you, at great length and with quasi-mathematical precision, exactly what they mean and how it differs from what everybody else means—a much sounder practice than that of the old scholars, who blithely assumed that everybody who mattered knew what they meant because they'd attended the same schools and learned the same (Latin) grammar.
I'm afraid I can't help you with printed sources (I'm a writer, I can't afford academic monographs!), but I find the Glossary of Linguistic Terms at SIL and the Grammatical Features site helpful.
As to the specific terms you name:
The pluperfect and the past perfect are the same thing as long as you're using both of them to talk about the English construction with HAVEpast + VERBpast participle. Neither, however, is perfective, and neither can be equated with the Latin plus quam perfectum.
Verb base + -ing is a way of identifying a specific verb inflection while denying the Latin-derived notion that an (English) present (or active) participle and an (English) gerund are distinct entities as opposed to distinct uses of a single form.