what is the maximum time windows service wait to process stop request and how to request for additional time

I wrote the following code to achieve it.

protected override void OnStop()
{
  int timeout = 10000;
  var task = Task.Factory.StartNew(() => MyTask());
  while (!task.Wait(timeout))
  {
      RequestAdditionalTime(timeout);
  }
}

The above code starts a Task in Parallel to the main thread (Task start running immediately), next line is to check if task is completed or not every 10 seconds and if it is not completed it requests additional 10 seconds and keep checking till task get completed.

Different settings for OS restart

Though a number of people have mentioned the HKEY_LOCAL_MACHINE\SYSTEM\CurrentControlSet\Control\WaitToKillServiceTimeout registry key, according to this "Service Control Handler" article from Microsoft that registry entry only controls the max amount of time a service can take to shut down when Windows itself is being shut down or restarted:

<...> to prevent a service from stopping shutdown, there is a limit to how long the service controller waits. If the service is being shut down through the Services snap-in, the limit is 125 seconds. If the operating system is rebooting, the time limit is specified in the WaitToKillServiceTimeout value <...>

If Windows is not in the process of restarting or shutting down, then the default amount of time Windows will wait for a service to shut down is 30 seconds. However, applications can make requests for additional time, which will be honored up to 125 seconds total (summed across all requests).

On Windows Server 2003 and later, this default timeout can be changed via the HKEY_LOCAL_MACHINE\SYSTEM\CurrentControlSet\Control\ServicesPipeTimeout registry key, as described in this Microsoft support article (and this ServerFault question). It's not clear if this applies to Windows 7/8/10, as the article only mentions server versions.

If a restart/shutdown has been initiated on the machine, the WaitToKillServiceTimeout registry key value (if present) specifies the maximum amount of time Windows will allow the application will be allowed, overriding the OS default.

Presumably this is so that applications cannot arbitrarily delay shutdown beyond the default (or what the administrator specified via the WaitToKillServiceTimeout registry entry).

It's set in the registry on subkey:

 HKEY_LOCAL_MACHINE\SYSTEM\CurrentControlSet\Control

with string value WaitToKillServiceTimeout. If not defined, it defaults to 20000 (ms). On my machine it seems to be set to 12000 (12s). I have never touched it.

by default I believe it is 12000 milliseconds, to change it you need to access registry HKEY_LOCAL_MACHINE\SYSTEM\CurrentControlSet\Control\WaitToKillServiceTimeout and change the value

but you can define your own time out if you want to start it or stop it programming here you define your own time out for starting

TimeSpan timeout = TimeSpan.FromMilliseconds(timeoutMilliseconds);
service.Start();
service.WaitForStatus(ServiceControllerStatus.Running, timeout);

and here you define your own time out for stopping

 TimeSpan timeout = TimeSpan.FromMilliseconds(timeoutMilliseconds);
 service.Stop();
 service.WaitForStatus(ServiceControllerStatus.Stopped, timeout);

Just always perform the RequestAdditionalTime, with the maximum time you expect your service to need for shutdown. It is not an error to finish earlier than predicted.