Hidden Folder not showing in Finder with show all hidden files
Solution 1:
I think Finder is out...
Mac OS X does not show you companion files unless you use Terminal, and sometimes not even then. (It shows invisible files rather easily, but to Mac OS X, both "MyFile" and "._MyFile" are two parts of the same file, and it doesn't normally return two directory entries for one file.) You only see these companion files on non-HFS disks that you move to other operating systems.
http://lists.apple.com/archives/applescript-users/2006/Jun/msg00180.html
So, the only Options I see is using VCP7, or Paralles, etc., to have a pseodo way to see them in Finder, or....
Write a script to list those files in a window & maybe link them back the the real ._ files.