Elements in finite field extensions
Solution 1:
I don't think we need assume that the fields are finite. If there exists a $y \in K$ such that $y^2 = x$, then I claim that you can write down the minimal polynomial for $y$ over $A$, and hence determine the degree of the field extension $A(y)/A$. Now recall the tower law for the degrees of field extensions.
Solution 2:
I agree with Dylan and Dilip that this problem is best approached without using the fact that the fields in question are finite. But if you really want something that uses the properties of finite fields, may I propose the following.
Assume that $|A|=q$, so $|K|=Q=q^3$, where $q$ is a power of a prime. The index of the multiplicative group $A^*$ in the multiplicative group $K^*$ is $(Q-1)/(q-1)=q^2+q+1$. This is always an odd number. So if the square of an element $z\in K^*$ is in $A^*$, then we must have $z\in A^*$, for otherwise the order of the coset $zA^* \in K^*/A^*$ would be two contradicting the fact that $|K^*/A^*|$ is odd. The claim follows from this.