Question about quotient of a compact Hausdorff space
Solution 1:
As noted in the comments, this answer shows that $f$ is closed if $R$ is closed in $X\times X$, i.e., that (3) implies (2). Now suppose that $f$ is closed. Note first that since $X$ is Hausdorff, $\{x\}$ is closed for each $x\in X$, and therefore $\{f(x)\}$ is closed for each $x\in X$. And $f$ is a surjection, so $\{y\}$ is closed for each $y\in Y$.
Now let $y_0$ and $y_1$ be distinct points of $Y$, and let $F_i=f^{-1}[\{y_i\}]$ for $i=0,1$; $F_0$ and $F_1$ are disjoint closed sets in $X$. $X$, being compact Hausdorff, is normal, so there are disjoint open sets $V_i$ for $i=0,1$ such that $F_i\subseteq V_i$. For $i=0,1$ let $K_i=X\setminus V_i$, and let $W_i=X\setminus f^{-1}[f[K_i]]$; $f$ is closed and continuous, so $W_i$ is open. It’s easy to check that
$$F_i\subseteq W_i=f^{-1}[f[W_i]]\subseteq V_i$$
for $i=0,1$ and hence that $f[W_0]$ and $f[W_1]$ are disjoint open nbhds of $y_0$ and $y_1$, respectively. Thus, $Y$ is Hausdorff, and (2) implies (1). Since you’ve already shown that (1) implies (2) and (3), the proof that all three are equivalent is complete.