How can I turn off the gamed service or more generally, any service?

Solution 1:

I'm not sure how to completely disable the process but I've set up Little Snitch to disallow incoming / outgoing processes associated with the Game Center. It's a useful little program.

Solution 2:

Specifically for the gamed service, the following command in one of the posts about a similar topic on the Apple Support Communities worked for me, without any need to modify plists or rename files:

sudo defaults write /System/Library/LaunchAgents/com.apple.gamed disabled -bool true

Changing "true" back to "false" will re-enable it, although I've not tried it.

Solution 3:

The first thing to do is open the damn thing and log out of Game Center, and delete whatever it still filled in.